Carol
I suggest you visit this web link to the Kinsley Library and contact the librarian, Rosetta. She should be able to give you some contact information for the cemetery.
http://kinsleylibrary.info/genealogy%20resourcesweb.htm
The other avenue I have used with limited success is to send a letter to a local funeral home and ask them who the contact is. Include a SASE. If the cemetery is still active, the funeral home will know who to contact.
Good Luck
Dave Goldy
Overland Park, KS